Getting Excited...!
The Fort Griswold investigation is coming in only one week, and things are getting pretty exciting! I had the opportunity to chat with Robyne and Tom from MASSparanormal on their myspace page last night, and found them to be full of crude humor. Eeeeeeexcellent! We will get along perfectly! They are just as excited as we are to go on this investigation. It will definately be refreshing to have some non-group members along to check out a place that I already know is haunted.
Our next group meeting is coming up tomorrow. On this note, I really should be cleaning my house up, not blogging, but oh well *shrug*! Tomorrow is going to be a very busy day for many of us in the group: first thing in the morning is the UU church service in New London, then shooting back up to Plainfield really quickly to meet most of our group members for one o'clock, then all of us running up to Brooklyn for the Old Trinity Church walking tour (YIPPEE!!!!), completing the tour and grilling the tour-givers about all the paranormal happenings surrounding OTC, then rushing back to Plainfield to my house again for the group meeting at four pm!!
Things are going well within the group still. There have been a couple snags cropping up this week, mainly in regards to communication issues. We have (hopefully) worked through all of that, because we all really need to focus on the coming investigation.
I will tell you this, for anyone interested in starting their own group, no matter what the area: running a group is HARD!!!!! It's not always love and light and chasing spooks! People all have their own opinions and feelings about things, the way things ought to be run, etc., and it's virtually IMPOSSIBLE to not be stepping on someone's toes throughout this process. Most paranormal groups do not make it through their first year of being together. I am determined, however, to not fall into that category, and hopefully everyone else is in line with what I feel! I do feel that it is absolutely necessary to have some kind of structure within every group, because without order and structure the result can be only chaos. Deciding who should be "in charge" should be made with reason and forethought, not emotions. If you end up being the leader of a group, you WILL hear bitching. Probably lots of it! You'd better get used to it now, because if you are truly serious about doing whatever it is you are doing, there is only bound to be more! My advice to you is to learn about people and do it fast...sociology, psychology, group dynamic...figure it out!
If you can't keep your people happy, you may end up doing what you love...all by yourself!


